While it might be easy if there were just one person for us, as in "The One," and once we find them we were set for life, things are really not that simple. Life, in general, is not that simple. And, honestly, I like to believe that as much as lack of simplicity can throw a wrench in things, no one really wants it that simple. And considering the rise of non-monogamy today, more and more people are proving that there's not just one person out there for everyone.
Many answers to why love fades can be found in understanding how and why we form a fantasy bond. The fantasy bond is the ultimate defense against love. To avoid a fantasy bond, we should avoid the characteristics listed above but also take the following actions. Be careful. Often without eye contact, less affection due to sensory differences and little to no verbal affirmations.
Real true love really existed in the past when the real good old fashioned ladies were around which today it is a very different story altogether unfortunately. Love is not about the submission of a woman to a man, or vice versa. It is an emotion, and a choice, that affects our lives daily. If what you want is a perfect woman, you will never find it. I suggest strongly that you look within yourself and discover who you really are before you make haughty expectations for others.
It states right there in the article that love is a verb. Love, as a noun, is not an emotion per se, but an attraction, acceptance and affection towards someone or something. Hate is a type of repulsion and rejection. The elements of love require some attraction, agreement at some level and communication.
The intensity of love can vary based on the level of attraction, agreement and communication. The more you communicate things both partners find positive and agreeable, beneficial and of interest, the more the relationship will flourish. One way love can exist as in unrequited love but true love requires mutual communication, mutual attraction and shared interests with some commonality in how each view reality.
Love is indeed an emotion because I can feel it. I doubt you have really experienced to be in love. It is a feeling and an action that is from the feeling itself. You can act without a feeling, and that is not true love. Pierce, women back in the old days made love very easy to find compared to today.
Now most women have their very high unrealistic expectations and standards. May they grow very old all alone with their Cats. Women in the past had real class compared to the very horrible ones that are everywhere these days. Today feminism is cancer. Well my husband and I did marry as virgins. I would honestly have to admit now that in our experience to do this was a mistake. It takes the love and respect and chemistry.
Getting to feel that both of you. True love actually hurts sometimes when you are away from each other. This is a classic epistle I have read about love and its meaning. A detailed study of the above, one will find out that there are many who think that they are in love why they are not. For instance, a young man whose parents were opposing the lady he wanted to marry. One thing i knew about love is that those who say they are in love, they must be ready and willing to sacrifice for each other and as well as do things that will make the love to grow.
Enjoyed the info. Very informative and eye opening. I still believe that we are capable of loving Someone for a lifetime.
I believe that whatever characteristics and behavior you had when u met, u should consider growing along the same during your lifetime. Yes we change, when we truly love, our moral compass should be pointed in a common direction. Most enlightening thing I learned from this read was to remain an individual. What I know about true is that love that shares good times together but most importantly when it has the power to over come all the misunderstandings between the two of you only that power can lead to everlasting love.
But true love exists just that it is rare. My rational and scientific mind read and agreed with a lot of what was said in this article. However, I am one of those hopeless romantics as stated who yearns for more than what life is currently giving.
I was once told that a relationship should come naturally. Yes you have a few disagreements, but for the most part, it should flow without major issues or effort. Then, there is everyone else saying that relationships take work and nothing comes easy.
But how do we know which is true? Are there really relationships out there were the couple have this ultimate connection and never truly have to work too much to keep it flowing? Do we just think that isnt the case because so many have never found that and have just excepted that relationships do truly take a lot of time and effort? Which is real? That is the question I want to answer. It ebs and flows.
At times it will fell effortless and other times it takes effort. Although there are ebbs and flow In a relationship , if a relationship is more effort and work then it is mutually loving and easy going then, I would consider that the partnership might not compatible.
Every relationship comes with its issues, baggage and work , but if the good outweighs the bad then the partnership is worth the effort and keeping. In my experience, love feels easy and joyful most of the time. We have problems that come up, especially when one or both of us are under stress. And the good far outweighs the bad overall.
Love is so uncertain. I married what I though the love of my life. There were great times but a lot of bad times. But honesty,if anyone is ever really honest,. I have learned this at age This can help ease any awkwardness that might come up. Find more tips on recovering from unrequited love here. Attraction and affection can change and grow over time, and people feel and show love in many ways.
Any type of emotional commitment can fulfill the human need for connection, provided you make the effort to sustain it. Crystal Raypole has previously worked as a writer and editor for GoodTherapy. Her fields of interest include Asian languages and literature, Japanese translation, cooking, natural sciences, sex positivity, and mental health. Being able to recognize the difference between love and lust can help create relationships that align with what you have interest, capacity, and time….
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